This post is inspired by one of my favourite fellow finance bloggers, Lily from The Frugal Gene. She writes a recurring series about her frugal wins and frugal fails, and it got me thinking about how my own saving vs spending plays out.
You guys know that I’m not going be winning any awards for my frugality; I’m a bit of a spender. I counteract those spendy habits by finding things I’m willing cheap-out on. Balancing the splurges with the scrimps keeps me on track with my savings goals while still having fun in the present.
1. Eating at Home
I like food, a lot, and I love going out to eat, but restaurants are a budget killer. I’m lucky to have a partner who is a fantastic cook (I’m terrible), and I take full advantage of that. We have a deal that we can have dinner out once a week at the most, and that often drops in the winter when staying in the warm house is so much more tempting. To some people, eating out once a week might still sound like a lot, but they’re not always expensive dinners. We save the fancier places for special occasions (aka birthday dinner when the parents are paying).
To make sure we stick to the plan, I plan out all our meals for the week, and we do one big shop every Sunday. Having the fridge stocked makes it so much easier to get dinner on the table and makes me feel guilty to skip any planned meals.
2. No Gym Membership
I used to pay for a gym membership for years but when I got more serious about saving money it was one of the expenses I nixed. The gym was never really my thing, so it didn’t make me sad to let it go. It did mean that I had to find cheaper ways to still stay in shape. For that, I turned to the internet…because YouTube solves all problems.
The two YouTube channels that I turn to again and again for free fitness videos are Yoga with Adriene and Fitness Blender. I have a yoga mat and a set of free weights at home, and that’s all the equipment I’ve needed to follow these videos and get a good workout.
3. One Car Household
Earlier this year the bf and I got rid of our second car. We live centrally, he takes the bus to work, I walk as long as the weather isn’t too terrible, and that meant we had two cars sitting at home the bulk of the time. Such a waste. It’s been almost five months since we sold the Jeep and being a one car family hasn’t been a problem at all. There was one close call when we both booked haircuts on the same day, but other than that it’s been smooth sailing.
Only having one car to pay insurance, registration, gas and maintenance on has saved us hundreds of dollars, plus the initial lump sum when we sold.
4. Using the Library
If you’re not a library user than I’m not sure we can be friends anymore. Seriously! The library is fantastic, and so much more than just books. Here in Edmonton a library membership is completely free and gets you access to books, movies, music, audiobooks, research journals, events and more. One of my Twitter friends recently mentioned that her library started lending out board games…how cool is that!
— Chief Mom Officer (@LizOfficer) November 6, 2017
5. Skimping on Home Decor
There are a lot of personal finance bloggers out there who are also minimalists; I am not one of them. I have a closet packed with way too many clothes, an overflowing basket of make-up, hair, and skincare samples, and enough yarn to crochet toques for all of Canada. But, when it comes to decorating my house, I would pass all the minimalist tests.
I have a few pieces of art on the walls (random finds from Winners and a couple of shots from a local photographer), but there are very few knick-knacks cluttering up shelves and tables.
And the Splurges
1. Concerts and Sporting Events
My best friend and I often joke that our hobby is ‘drinks and a concert’. Unlike both our spouses, we don’t have an expensive hobby, so instead, we go to shows. I’m all about spending money on experiences over physical things, and concerts are always a good time. If you enjoy live music but can’t justify the cost of tickets, keep an eye out for deals. I bought a ticket to Halsey on Groupon for only $20, and LiveNation had a Summer sale earlier this year where I snagged Kings of Leon tickets for the same price.
The bf and I are also big hockey fans, so we try to make it out to a few games every year. I’ve found that buying resale tickets (I just use Ticketmaster) and waiting until the last minute can snag you cheap seats. Oilers tickets here are pricey, but we got a pair for $54 each earlier this year.
I love to travel and wish that I could do more of it, but money doesn’t grow on trees! I’m also not the person who is willing to slum it when I’m travelling. I’m willing to go low-cost on flights, but I’ll spend a little extra to stay in a decent hotel in a good location. Food costs also get me when I’m travelling. One of my favourite things about visiting a new city is trying out the local restaurants, and that comes at a cost.
At this point, I’m ok with taking fewer trips but doing them without making sacrifices when I get there.
As I’m sure most of you know, I have four fur babies (2 dogs and two cats). They are not cheap, but they are deemed a necessary expense in my world. I try to find the best deals on pet products when I can, but am not willing to sacrifice quality.
For example, I just bought my Boxer a $100 winter jacket, so he doesn’t have to suffer through his winter walks. I didn’t even spend $100 on my own winter jacket (thank you Costco)!
‘It’s the most wonderful time of the year’. I couldn’t agree more. I embrace everything about the holidays; the food, the gifts, the decorations…But those don’t come free. By Christmas budget for this year is sitting at about $600, and that’s a cheap year. We’re not travelling or hosting so that only includes gift giving. Neither of us has huge families to buy for, but after purchasing a gift and a few stocking stuffers for the fam, plus gifts for friends, the costs start to add up.
Sure, I could cut back, but I just don’t want to. There are other areas in the budget I’d rather cut out, and I save up for Christmas during the year so I’m not going into debt.
5. This Blog
Newsflash: blogging isn’t exactly a moneymaker. Some bloggers make tons of money off their blogs, but that is rarer than you’d think. I earn a bit of money, but I’ve still put more money into it than I’ve gotten out of it.
I guess you could say I do have an expensive hobby after all…
In the last couple of years I’ve been blogging, I’m paid for hosting, a couple of online courses, and marketing tools. The costs are huge, but they are a factor, just one that hasn’t discouraged me from.
Where do you fit in the frugal vs spendy scale? What are the things you tend to splurge on? And what are the things you scrimp on?
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